Kodak/Funny Moments to Remember

Below I have my positive pregnancy test.  Is it bad that I can't throw them away (I have 2)?  Cochran thinks it is.  I have them sealed in a plastic zip lock bag.  I was just so excited when I saw that  + sign.  You get so many negatives so that positive is a miracle and literally changes your life.

  The story I have to share is that in September 2010 is when we decided that we would no longer take precautions to not get pregnant.  Of course that month for some reason I didn't have my period.  I took tests-NEGATIVE.  I did research and it said sometimes the tests aren't 100% accurate so it's a good idea to go to a doctor to take a pregnancy urine test.  I went into a walk in clinic one day during lunch because I couldn't stand the wait.  So typical me.  I took another test there and waited for the doctor.  The doctor entered the room.  He was Asian and I point that out because when you read this you have to do it with an accent.  Think Mr. Chow on the Hangover if you've seen it. It was too funny.  He said to me, "You take pregnancy test at home. It say you not pregnant. You come here and I tell you you not pregnant.  Yet you still ask if you pregnant.  You go home. Try for a year. If you not pregnant in year come back."  At that I remarked "I would have preferred to speak with a female doctor."  Females are more sensitive to the emotional side of other women.  He snapped "I doctor.  I professssiiioooonnnaal."  Haha!  To say the least I haven't walked back in that clinic. 

When we knew we were pregnant but still hadn't announced it yet and obviously didn't know I was carrying two we called the baby "Peanut."  One morning Cochran made me pancakes.  He surprised me & said he made Peanut one too.  Peanut's was on top. 

People often ask if I've had cravings.  The only time that both of us recall a genuine craving is one night I had to have chocolate chip cookies.  I was in tears for chocolate chip cookies.  Cochran finally went to our little market on site and was able to get a package of four.  I told him we had to heat them in the microwave so they were soft.  Below are the cookies with an "I love you" message he prepared.  I love you too babe!  Thanks for saving my life with the cookies.  I'm pretty sure I wouldn't have survived if I didn't eat them. 

Our good friends Matt & Ashley Anderson surprised us with insight of what our twins could possibly look like.  I still can't look at this and not laugh!

MeMe purchased a LIFESAVOR for me...my pregnancy pillow; however Scooter is trying to make me practice what I preach..."Sharing is caring."  He LOVES my pillow and every night tries to get to it first.  Let's just say it's mmmyyyyy pillow!  LOL!

Scooter's BFF Hemi stayed with us one weekend.  Cochran & I were in the boy's nursery when the dogs jumped into his lap.  Cochran got some practice in with holding two at a time.  He looks like a natural but obviously we are going to have our hands full.  You can tell by this picture how spoiled Scooter is-Rotten! 

 

One day at work I told the girls that the people who clean out our individual trash cans every night probably think "Man, this lady is BIG HUNGRY." 

Desiree wrote this letter and attached it to my trash can:

Final straw before purchasing maternity pants...

The shirt explains why she is MeMe...

Heather shared this picture.  Too funny.

Pop already bought the boys a pony named Lucy.  Then he realized there's a few years before they could actually ride her so Lucy has been sold. 

I still think it's too cute and sweet that he did that. They are certain to be well rounded-beach bums, country boys, and little athletes :)

For some reason I like to remix random songs. 

One morning I started remixing "Baby Got Back" while Cochran & I was getting ready for work.  I began, "I like big bellies and I can not lie. You other brothers can't deny.  When a girl walks in with a big ole belly." At this point I went blank when Cochran chimed in and said "It is my wife!" 

My other remix recently has been to "Twinkle twinkle little star" and I pretty much sing it every day...

"Cankle cankle you use to be my ankle.  How I wonder where you are."

July 26, 2011 For the first time we felt that one of the boys had the hiccups. His daddy figured it out. After that for a week straight Baby B consistently got hiccups after lunch.  It was like clock work.

SAVED THE BEST FOR LAST

August 4, 2011

QUOTE OF THE DAY

(me) "Babe will you iron my clothes?" (babe) "Where are they?" (me) "On the bed." (babe) "I'm not ironing 5 dresses!" (me) "Those are shirts!"

Haha!

6 weeks and counting

First off, it finally happened...I had to get the stepping stool to place beside the bed.  This momma to be now needs a lift to get into our large King size bed.  We have a canopy bed and I wish we could hang a rope so I could pull myself up to help get me out of bed.  I guess it's an option but I would hate to bring the whole bed down...haha!  So for now I'll continue to do the roll out. 

This week was one I knew would eventually come but it's still hard to believe it's here.  I have noticed a big change in how I feel and energy level compared to 2 weeks ago.  I went to my regular doctor on Tuesday.  The doctor discussed bed rest with me, but fearing I would drive myself crazy being at home and doing nothing all day we decided I could reduce my work schedule to 20 hours a week.  Wednesday I returned to work and talked to our Human Resource Department.  I basically found out that Short Term Disability (STD) only picks up if you are 100% disabled.  Financially speaking I would make more money going on STD versus working.  I spoke to my boss and she agreed it was time for me to rest.  I had many women in the office worried just because they noticed the change in me as well.  I am one of those people who always push forward and sometimes it takes family & friends to tell me "Leslie you need to slow down."  So Thursday was my last day at work.  I tried my best to organize my chaos, worked late, and as I was driving away I felt a huge weight lift off my shoulders.  I am very relieved to reduce my stress for the boys, get off my feet, and rest so my boys can grow, grow, and grow.

We had our specialist doctor appointment yesterday morning.  Typically 3 weeks fly by but this go around seemed to take longer.  I am guessing along with the change in how I feel and with the due date approaching I am getting more anxious to see them and hear the update.  When we visit the specialist we always have the ultrasound first.  The boys haven't changed positions.  I did find out it's not Baby B's head and butt I feel, but Baby A's feet and Baby B's head.  Baby A is head down and really low.  He lies on my cervix but then he wraps around and his feet are high.  Baby B is up high (I call it the "top bunk") and then he wraps around with his feet low in breach position.  So I picture them in a circle-Head-Feet-Head-Feet.  I told Cochran they are going to have foot fetishes because they always have the other's feet in their face. 

Baby A weighed 3.5 pds and Baby B weighed 3.8 pds.  The doctor and ultrasound tech listened to their umbilical cords to check the flow.  Both were great.  The only concern is that Baby B has a larger stomach than Baby A.  This is not based on the 3 ounce difference but Baby A's stomach circumference is smaller (Cochran said that he just takes after him).  The specialist asked if I was still working and I told him I was now finished.  He said great and that it's time for me to rest and to stay on my left side.  When you become pregnant (you anatomy/biology majors and smarter than I people may already know) you learn that a major vein runs down the right-hand side of your body; it's called the inferior vena cava.  It is recommended to lie on your left side to encourage better circulation both for you and to your baby.  For instance, if I lie on my right side my right leg will fall asleep from my knee up to my thigh.  It's the weirdest thing.  Also, I've told you about how my right side swells more and the nurse said perhaps I sprained my ankle when I was younger.  The specialist said it has more to do with the weight pressure, the vein, and circulation which causes my right side to swell worse than my left.

The specialist also wants me to start having the non-stress tests starting next week at 32 weeks.  Originally I was set to have this at 34 weeks.  I'll also have a non-stress test/visit with the doc the following week and then it will be time to see the specialist the following week.  He did mention at a certain point I will see my regular doctor twice a week. 

Update on our delivery date.  As I was scheduling my next appointment I asked if they knew which doctor was on schedule for 9/23. I discovered it was a doctor that I did not want.  The doctor I prefer is on the schedule the day before so I moved up the date to 9/22.  Of course, our parents have "trip flex" in case of changes.  We may go ahead and if the same doctor is on for the week we may move the date to 9/21.  So our parents can fly in on Tuesday and be there for the arrival of their grand boys on Wednesday.  Of course, anything can happen with twins.  60% of twins are born before 37 weeks.  I am hoping our boys wait till the delivery date.  Two weeks can allow them to gain close to another pound each.  However, we have to be realistic and know that anything could potentially happen 3 weeks from now (35 weeks pregnant) and leading up to our scheduled delivery date.  I've started packing for the hospital but still have a few items to pick up and baby clothes to wash. 

My pregnancy has been so blessed so that's probably why we are all wondering where the time went.  I can't stop looking and kissing their ultrasound pictures.  Today the ultrasound tech could only capture Baby A because Baby B was head down; but they're identical so they should look alike right?  I am focusing on nothing but them.  My hormones are all over the place and my heart has so much joy I think it might burst.

Thanks to all of you for reading and sharing in our journey.  I'll continue with the updates.   

Countdown is on

Just as expected July flew by.  It always amazes me how fast time goes by.  I try to remember that because I know when the boys get here sleep is going to be something we don't get very often; yet I want to remember to enjoy the moments.  Again, we are scheduled to deliver on Friday, September 23.  We are 8 weeks away.  If both of the boys are head down then it's possible I will delivery vaginally.  However, if only one is head down and the other is in a different position then a C-Section it will be.  Baby A has been in a head down position for a while now but Baby B loves to lie across my belly as high as he can get.  I can typically always feel his head and butt.  I tease he must get his butt from his momma.  The doctor said to me last week, "I don't know how you are breathing."  My response was "Very heavy."  I laugh because at work I will get out of breath just holding a conversation.

Currently, we go to our regular doctor appointments every 2 weeks and the specialist every 3 weeks.  At the regular doctor appointments they monitor my blood pressure, check my urine, measure my belly, listen to the babies' heart rates, and ask/answer questions.  The specialist monitors the boys' growth and development.  At our last specialist appointment they both weighed 2.10 pounds each.  There was only a few grams difference between the two.  First tie! The specialist said during this time is when one baby can start to grow more than the other.  So of course I'm anxious for our next doctor appointment in about 2 weeks. 

 In the past 2 weeks I have noticed a huge difference in how I feel and that it won't be long before everything is a challenge for me.  As of now I have to be strategic on how to get out of bed.  You would think peeing every 3 hours at night would give me practice, but it never gets easier.  I am still working full time so by the end of the day I am very swollen.  For some reason my right side swells more than my left.  The doctor mentioned that perhaps I badly sprained my ankle when I was younger which causes it to be worse.  I am not use to having to slow down so it takes an emotional toll on me.  I'm use to go, go, going and it's hard to accept that I've got to rest and that I can't do everything on my own.  I can admit I'm stubborn and I know I get it honest (from my mom and mammaw). 

I went to the "Mom's of Multiples" meeting and met another mom expecting identical twin girls.  We have started to email regularly and plan on meeting soon.  She is due one week before us and ironically goes to the same specialist and sees the same doctor.  It's very nice to have someone there to share these experiences.  Most of the other moms I met had 8-13 month year olds.  They were all so open in sharing and helping.  I am very happy to have found this group. 

Of course with all the support of the group, co-workers, and new friends it's still very difficult to be so far away from family and friends in Kentucky.  I have had to turn to God to lift me up.  He has placed strong Christian friends in my life and I have to thank Heather and Emily for being there and reminding me the promises God has made.  I have had to remind myself how God has provided for us and what He has done in our lives.  He has blessed our lives beyond measure so I'm not going to doubt Him now.  I'm going to continue to allow Him to lead our lives.  My heart is strong but it's my mind that can "over think" things.  The mind - our thoughts - can be very deceiving.  Again, I have had to ask God to protect my mind against the fears, doubts, and questions I have. Philippians 4:6-7 says  "⁶ Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. ⁷ And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."  When I am struggling with something in my life I turn to a bible verse that speaks to me and the struggle(s) I am enduring and post it where I can constantly see it.  God's truth grows in my heart.  There have been times in my life before where I turned to this bible verse.  I have also posted Philippians 4:13 "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."  The last thing I want to do when I am stressed, restless, etc. is turn away from God.

My husband has been my rock. Bless his heart he has been by my side thru the ups, downs, and all arounds.  His love and patience is simply amazing.  He always lifts me up and supports me.  I love you! 

I know the next 8 weeks will fly by like the rest of my pregnancy; however I also know that these remaining weeks will be the most challenging-physically, mentally, and emotionally.  However, I know when I hold our boys it will all make sense and that's what I dream about.   I have enjoyed being pregnant and I continue to be amazed by the boys movement and development.  Next weekend we have our belly pictures scheduled.  I had debated whether or not to have them done but I want to capture this beautiful time in our lives.  This may be my only pregnancy-who knows.  There is always that thought if we get pregnant again what if it's twins...wow, what if...





 

Names Revealed

Many of you have asked about their names.  Trust me I've been asking my husband alot too!  Haha!  From the beginning he was very picky about what he liked and disliked.  Let me rephrase that-he basically disliked everything.  As I said before we always liked the name Cameron.  Before we even conceived we thought we would name our child Cameron (boy) or Camryn (girl) no matter what the gender.  So when we realized there were two it was just too hard for us to drop Cameron.  So I started trying to come up with other "C" names.  We really liked Cooper but Cooper Cochran was too much.  I began to really like Channing Joseph and Cameron Michael and I had also thrown out Blake and Brody.  Cochran really liked Blake but wouldn't go for Brody.  Finally Channing began to grow on him and the family.  I was ready to announce but Cochran kept insisting we wait.  Then one day he said he really didn't know if he was 100% on Channing.  He said that he still really liked Blake.  I'm very open and I like Cameron and Blake.  We began to discuss middle names.  I definitely wanted Joseph because my dad is Joseph Shawn and my Pappaw Borders was Robert Joseph.  Those were the two most important men in my life growing up and I really wanted to pass that along.  We both liked Cameron Joseph better than Blake Joseph; however I like the name Joseph Blake Cochran.  However, Cochran is adamant that their first name is the name we call them.  Plus, we like the nickname CJ.  Therefore, we decided Cameron Joseph Cochran for Baby A.  On to Blake.  Cochran found his middle name by none other than using Google. 

I can't say it's completely final because anything can change before it's written on the birth certificate.  But as of now Cameron Joseph and Blake Alexander Cochran it is!

Nesting to Resting

Meme and Pop visited this past July 4th weekend.  We had an amazing time.  They drove down and brought all the boys gifts from the baby shower in April.  They were loaded down!  They arrived on a Thursday night and we enjoyed a nice dinner out to eat.  There they felt their first kicks as the boys were on the move at the table.  The following day I had a specialist appointment.  I was excited for them to come along and see their grandbabies.  Our ultrasound tech was awesome.  She quickly turned on the 3D and we were all amazed to see their little faces and bodies.  Baby A was head down and Baby B was lying across and around the top of my stomach.  It wasn't long before she pointed out Baby A's butt was in Baby B's face.  You could see his little butt cheeks.  Haha!  Baby B quickly put up his hands and blocked his face from his brother's shenanigans.

As of now the trend continues where the boys take turns growing; which is a great sign that they are sharing.  "Sharing is caring" is our motto!  Baby B weighed 1 pound 13 ounces and Baby A weighed 1 pound 11 ounces.  When the doctor came in he reviewed their weight and pointed out that they are in the 50th percentile for growth.  He said "This is as good as it gets."  Those words are a wonderful relief for a mom to be.  I have hope that we continue on this path.  Thank you for your continued prayers and support!  The doctor also said that it is time for me to slow down.  No walking for a long distance and to slow down when I do walk.  So what did we do the next day?  We went to SeaWorld.  I walked slowly and of course there were a ton of shows we watched.  We all had a fun day!  Plus, I had an amazing piece of carrot cake :) 

We had already accomplished putting up all of my shower gifts on Friday night.  So Sunday mom, dad, and I ventured out to go shopping for the remaining items on my registry that we needed for when the boys come home.  After a busy day of shopping we brought all the goodies home and finished the boys' room.  It is so cute!  I am so relieved to have that done.  Thanks mom and dad for all of your help!  I'm proud that my hubby and I worked as hard as we did since the timing to slow down is here.  Monday that's what we certainly did.  We took Scoot Dog to the doggy beach at Honeymoon Island.  I got tickled watching MeMe and Pop play with him in the water.  It won't be long before there are two little boys playing on the beach.  I hope they love the water as much as their mommy and daddy does.  That night we watched fireworks down at St. Pete Beach.  It was a perfect ending to a perfect weekend.  Saying our "Goodbye's" the following day was anything but easy.  The craziest part is we realized the next time they visit the boys will be here and I will be a mommy! Wow!

From Nesting to Resting!  Now I need to read, read, read to learn how to take care of these boys and learn the tricks of the trade from other mommies...haha!  I have joined a group called the Tampa Bay Moms of Multiples.  They have a forum where you can ask questions, read others comments, there is a monthly meeting, play dates, and outings for moms.  I'm looking forward to meeting other moms and couples who can relate and provide support.  More than anything I'm getting more and more anxious (not to mention bigger) as the due date gets closer.  It's like I am beginning to see the finish line which is actually just the beginning :)
   

Random thoughts

If you haven't noticed I slack on the blog and then tend to post back to back.  I can't help but share these odd random thoughts.  Please note that I also have insightful, intelligent thoughts...LOL! But that's not the name or intent of this blog :) 

1. The other day I couldn't get Maury Povich out of my head.  Why in the world would you go on national television and paternity test multiple men?  I couldn't imagine being pregnant and not sure of who my babies' daddy was.  Christopher Shane Cochran YOU ARE THE FATHER! 

2. I can't fathom being pregnant with quadruplets or more.  Triplets would be scary...yes.  However, I can imagine having three babies in my belly.  I guess because it's one more, but four would be doubling it and completely freaks me out.  I honestly don't see how Kate and Octomom didn't feel like an animal carrying a litter.  I can't imagine carrying let alone delivering and being mom to that many babies at once.  WOW and HELP are the only two words that come to mind!

3.  There is a special coming on TV next week about identical twins having ESP.  I can't wait to report about what I discover and how interesting it will be to see how our boys interact.  Will they have their own language?  I already have the video camera ready!

4.   A friend at work mentioned the Astrology signs.  She shared that she wonders if she altered her son's personality since she had a scheduled C-Section and his birthday fell at the cusp of one sign over the other.  Which lead me to research aka Google what the boys Astrology sign would be.  According to some sites they would be right there between a Libra and Virgo; however I then discovered articles that the signs shifted according to Astronomers and they even discovered a new Zodiac sign.  Which would mean that I'm no longer a Capricorn.  Hello!  Therefore, I have decided this is no longer relevant. I don't even read my horoscope; however I have to admit when reading the characteristics of a Capricorn it's eerily a description of me.  

5.  Modern Family-we love it!  We've been watching it on NetFlix.  While I was sick last week and flipping thru channels I saw a rerun of Oprah and they had the cast of Modern Family on the show.  Did you know that baby Lily is identical twin girls?  The next Mary Kate and Ashley perhaps?  Haha!  So of course it made me daydream about our boys being tiny models or actors.  Also the hubbs and I love watching pranks and we saw some really good ones that only identical twins can pull off.  I can 100% see our little guys being pranksters.  It runs in the family (cough...MeMe)! 

Adventures of June 2011

We had a specialist doctor appointment on June 3rd. On this particular day they did a fetal echo of the boy's hearts. I'm happy to report that all was healthy and normal. During most of the ultrasound the boys were breach and facing in the same direction. However, at one point Baby B became to stretch. You could see him just stretching and stretching. I imagined him saying "Oh I am growing so fast and this will make me taller than my brother!" Then in one fast movement he flipped over and was facing his brother face to face. At that moment the tech turned the ultrasound on 3D. It was awesome. As she tried to give us a glimpse of Baby A's face he kept wiggling and wouldn't stay still. Then he and his brother began to cuddle and it was the sweetest thing. It was almost like they didn't want us to take a sneak peek so they put their heads together and arms up to block. Cochran said they are already plotting. The technician said it's rare to capture a moment like that. Which is definitely true in our situation since they are usually fighting (playfully I like to think). She explained that there is a thin layer that separates them in the placenta. She said to imagine if we put on saran wrap and touched one another. That is how it is for them; so they can very much feel and acknowledge one another. It was a precious moment in our book and will always be one of our favorite memories. We were (and continue to be) on cloud 9 and have shown everyone their photos! I also must report that Baby A took the lead in weight weighing in at 15 ounces...one ounce away from 1 pound! Baby B was 1 ounce away from his brother weighing in at 14 ounces. Keep sharing boys! You are doing a great job!

The following week we picked up our baby furniture-two baby cribs and one dresser. This month we have worked hard at cleaning, moving things into storage, assembling their furniture, organizing, etc! Go Team Cochran! I would like to share that 3/4 of my wardrobe is in the storage unit. I hope to one day fit back into it. I know that as women we give ourselves a hard time over our weight and I am no different. I look at some of these clothes now and think "How did I ever fit into that? And what was I thinking when I said I was fat?" Typical, right? Haha! Also, I look at these clothes and think, "Ok, I'm going to be a momma now. Is this appropriate? Do I need a new mommy wardrobe?" Anyways, our goal is get as much done now since I want to be able to help. With this growing tummy I know it's a matter of time before Lamu (yes I named myself after Shamu) will be on the couch. I know it will be a relief & nice to have everything ready and prepared so we can relax and get the necessary rest the last couple of months. I can't express how much joy I had hanging their first set of clothes in the closet. Yes, my eyes watered and all! I find myself walking in there because I get so tickled seeing their tiny clothes hanging in this big closet. I honestly just love walking in their room and sitting.  I try to imagine what it's going to be like but I can't grasp what's in store for us. I won't until we meet them & bring them home.

On Sunday, June 13th Cochran felt his first baby kicks! For weeks I had felt the boys moving but every time I would tell Cochran to feel they would quit. They still do this to all of my coworkers. On this particular night we had just sat down to rest after an exhausting day of doing everything I just mentioned above. He was right beside me on the couch. I kept feeling the kicks and instead of announcing to Cochran that the boys were kicking (because then they would hear and quit) I simply reached over, grabbed his hand, and placed it on my tummy. He felt one, two, three kicks in a roll. I was thrilled! Again, someone keeps turning on the water in my eyes-LOL! That was a turning point because the boys have really been on the move since then. Occasionally if I feel them kick, I can touch my stomach at the spot and they will kick back. We will go back & forth. At other times, I can actually feel where they are because my stomach will become really hard in that area. I know that eventually that will be my reality. With them growing, there is going to be less room to move, so I hope they get cozy before they're stuck. Preferably not in my ribs!

On June 15th we had our regular doctor appointment. On this day they were butt to butt; therefore legs were right in each other's faces. You could literally see Baby A kicking his brother in the head. On impact Baby B's head would go back. Then he would regain his composure and Baby A would do it again...head flying back like a punching bag...repeat. Baby B was unsuccessfully trying to block with his arm. He was also trying to get even but didn't have the position like his brother. We said they were little ninjas! After the ultrasound we met with one of the doctors. We really liked her! Her sister had identical twin girls so she was so informative and personable. I know you would assume all doctors should be this way but it hasn't been our experience. Interestingly, she said that if everything continues the way it has we can begin to look at the calendar to determine when we want to meet these boys. It's a cool but weird thing to think we may actually pick their birthday. Someone at work suggested we ask for a midnight delivery so one can be born one day and the other the next. Not sure a doctor would go for that but great idea! The 37-38 week would be September 20-27.  We have decided if we get to that point and we are certainly hoping we do that September 23rd will be Baby A & Baby B’s birthday.  It's on a Friday and flights leave from Lexington to here early in the morning.  Therefore, family can get down here to meet the little guys.   

On June 16th I had my work baby shower. Cochran & I was blown away by everyone's generosity. I work in a large insurance office. We are divided in smaller, specialized divisions but I have the pleasure of knowing a lot of people since I write personal lines and have helped people with their own insurance. I also tend to be an open book and talk a lot. Many of you don't know this about me :) About 50 people came to the shower bearing gifts, love, and support. It was one of those moments of reflection. To think we moved here a year ago and to see how many wonderful people I have met and are a part of my life is awesome. I am very lucky to work with such incredible women and friends. I can't say how grateful I am to God for all of His blessings.   I also have to share that one of their presents was two dalmation dog stuffed animals.  The dogs each have one black ring around their eye.  Mind you this was the next day after their doctor appointment.  I couldn't help but laugh because that's how my boys will probably enter the world-Each with a black eye.  The gift was priceless! 

This past week I believe all the work, excitement, and everything had finally taken it's toll. I got sick with a sinus infection. So I was forced to take a day and a half to safely get medicated and rest. I tell ya when I hit that physical low I also hit that emotional low. Gotta love the hormones. I'm happy to announce that I'm back and up to my old tricks!  Casa Cochran has many guests on the list for July-Meme & Pop, Vincent & Kelly, Aunt Brittany Ann, Nana & Aunt Tori. Therefore, I'm anticipating July will ffffllllly by and we will be down to two months before you know it!   

TMI for the Ladies

During this time (23 weeks) of my pregnancy I would like to share the not so pleasant changes about being pregnant. Before I begin this rant I would like to make clear that I believe pregnancy is a beautiful thing. To know there are 2 growing boys in my tummy gives me so much joy. However, I'm far to open to not blog about some of the changes that is hard to accept in a humorous way (since that's the way I deal best).

First, let's just go ahead and lay it out there. Two weeks ago I realized I could no longer see my Va-J-J. Yes, I know that I will eventually not be able to see my feet, but why didn't I think of the in-between? I've had jelly rolls pretty much my whole life; except for that one sweet summer as a teenager when I didn't eat and exercised religiously. However, there is no roll to this belly. At times my stomach feels like a balloon that has been filled with so much air it's going to bust. At other times, I feel like gremlins are going to emerge out of my belly. I say that I feel large and in charge. However, let's be real-I'm not in charge.

I've had women share all sorts of stories. I don't believe men know we share as much as we do, but if there are any men reading this listen carefully-WOMEN TALK ABOUT EVERYTHING. So if this makes you uncomfortable please tune back in on my next blog. I'm just putting it all out there right now. I've been told by some women that their hubby's had to help them shave. I've shared this with Cochran to prepare him for the inevitable. Let's say they don't put this in the "What To Expect when Expecting" book.

Next, let's talk about "the girls." They were the first pregnancy symptom that was obvious. They grew quickly during the first trimester and overshadowed the baby bump. Now? Well let's say it's like bunk beds. The girls are the top bunk and the baby bump is right below. They are roommates; however I don't see how I'm not going to run out of room. I even made up a song that I'm not going to share because you don't have the tune. The gist is that the girls sit on my belly. My belly seems to hold them up. This is hilarious-as I'm about to type this it actually happens. My cleavage is like a food trap. If I miss my mouth I know exactly where to find it. It's my "save a snack for later" place. Haha!

My innie is now an outtie. Again I knew this would happen. However, you must understand that I had what I considered a deep belly button. Cochran use to act like it was a hole and say "Hello down there." Now he constantly points out that it's an outtie. It reminds me when I baked my first turkey for Thanksgiving. The white thing popped out when the turkey was done. However, I'm not done. I still have at least 3 more months of baking to do.

My feet are just beginning to swell. I already have wide feet so the swelling takes it to the next level. By the end of the day I feel like my toes lose half of their length. So it's very funny to see wide feet with midget toes. Can't wait to add in the cankles for the latest fashionable cave woman look.

My mom got me an amazing pillow to sleep with but I have already begun to get quite uncomfortable. When I try to get out of bed I'm like a rollie pollie ollie. I have to prop several pillows behind my back on the couch so I can scoot myself up versus doing the back and forth motion to give myself some momentum to get up. Also, as the boys grow they won't have as much room to move. As it is, they seem to love my ribs which is very uncomfortable. Of course, there is a ton of pressure on my back and sitting at a desk causes a lot of discomfort on my tail bone; which I broke as a young child and my mom didn't believe me until my chiropractor confirmed this a few years ago observing my x-ray (no mom I will not let it go until you do what you should have done. Kiss it and make it feel better-lol!)

In sharing all this I want to say that this "negative/con" list has nothing on the blessings/positive list. When I get stressed I picture holding the boys while they are sleeping and it calms & fills me with peace. I can't wait till we meet them! Boys, you are worth every bit of it!

First Mother to Be Day

In thinking about the past month I realize I wrote about the weekend home and doctor visits and in doing so forgot one of the most special days-Mother's Day. Mother's Day fell on May 8th this year. That is a very special day to me. Cochran & I were married on 5/8/09. I graduated from college on 5/8/05. Now I can add 5/8/11 since it was my first "Mother to be Day."

My husband has really surprised me over the years. On Friday that Mother's Day weekend he texted me at work and asked if I could get off early. I told him that I would skip lunch so I could leave early. All day I was excited to see what he had planned. At 4:30pm he picked me up directly from work. Of course in the car I was trying to guess what we were doing. He wouldn't tell me anything. He drove us to Salt Rock Grill on Redington Beach. This restaurant was a place we had been wanting to visit. We enjoyed a very nice meal to begin our night. Afterwards we continued driving along the beach area. When suddenly he said he thought he missed his turn. He turned into a parking lot to turn around and I noticed how pretty the landscape looked thru the doors of the hotel. He was trying to get his bearings on where we were when he spotted a parking lot across the street. He said, "I don't think we are far so we could park here and just walk." I noticed and mentioned it was for visitors of the hotel but he said we wouldn't be too long and it would be ok. I know...I know! The lightbulb should have went off at this point, but he had me change my high heels with flip flops and place my purse in the trunk so I thought nothing about it. This man was in front of us walking to the hotel and where I made the comment about the landscape Cochran said, "Let's just follow him in & check it out. Plus we'll have access to the beach." He made sure we stayed a couple steps behind the guy. I was getting nervous, because it was a locked gate and this girl doesn't like to get in trouble. Sure enough the man turns to go into the lobby first and that's when Cochran pulled out the key to get in the gate. DING, DING, DING! I finally realized that he was up to far much more and I had been played! Ms. Gullible! Haha! He took me to our room, opened the door, and he had everything set up. There were 2 cards (one for our anniversary and the other for Mother's Day) on the bed with rose pedals and chocolates. He had 2 red roses sitting on the counter for our 2nd year anniversary. Plus, he had actually been to the grocery to get his pregnant wife all types of goodies-ice cream, white chocolate covered pretzels, etc...yuuuum! Emotion overcame me and tears rolled. He had actually packed a bag for us and found someone to take care of our first son, Scooter. We changed and took a long stroll on the beach. Our hotel had several hammocks on the beach so we found a hammock & relaxed. While lying there, listening to the waves crash, and the sun set I began to think next year on Mother's Day we will have 2 little boys in our lives. Amazing!

Doctor Appointments

Currently we have appointments weekly. We rotate between going to the specialist, then back to our doctor, specialist, doctor, etc. We were told this will continue till we reach 24 weeks. On Tuesday I will be 20 weeks. My husband has been by my side for every appointment and doesn't plan to miss one unless he absolutely has to. I'm sure I would be a lot more emotional if it wasn't for him constantly making me laugh and always making me feel so loved. He has really had to step up and he truly has. I am so happy he is my babies' daddy! Hehe! I love you babe!

We went to the specialist for the first time two weeks ago. During our previous regular doctor appointment both of the babies were sleeping. They were head to butt and snoozed the entire time. So that whole day I kept telling them to set their alarm clocks and get ready to boogie down so we could see them move. Well they got the memo because the ultrasound tech was laughing yet frustrated that they wouldn't keep still. This ultrasound was very thorough. She had to measure and observe everything about each individual baby. Baby A tends to cooperate more than Baby B so he was first in line. As I was lying there the room became increasingly hot. Those of you who are close to me know that I tend to pass out in hospital situations. However, this was not a typical situation, but I began having the common symptoms. Finally, I said "It's getting very hot in here." The ultrasound tech went into go mode and said roll over on your side, quickly got me a wet towel, and applied it to the back of my neck. She thanked me for mentioning how I was feeling and said that frequently women will just pass out on the table without saying a word. She said I began to feel that way because being flat the babies put a lot of pressure on my organs. She continued the ultrasound from me lying on my side. After a while she rolled me back over but inclined my back so I wasn't flat. By this time it was Baby B's turn. He was positioned upside down. After scanning what she could she asked me to go to the restroom hoping he would flip back over. When I returned Mr. Stubborn was still floating upside down. I asked her if she wanted me to do a cart wheel and she about fell out of her chair. Her reaction was classic. I assured her I was only joking. By the end of our 3 hour ultrasound everything on both babies had been measured. We had viewed their spinal cords and brain. Their development is currently normal and healthy. We found out that Baby A weighed 7 ounces and Baby B 8 ounces.

The following week, which was this past Tuesday we went for our regular doctor appointment. On this visit both of the babies were in breach position. Baby A was opening and closing his mouth. It looked like he was talking. I said to my husband, "Babe we say Baby A takes after you because he is always chill but looks like he is talking. So he may be like his momma." Then I noticed his little arm moving on the side of his head. I said, "And look he's moving his arm back and forth." The ultrasound tech said, "Oh no. That's his brother's arm hitting him in the head." We laughed. No wonder why he was talking. I'm sure he was telling his brother to knock it off. Just because he weighs 1 more ounce then him he thinks he is big stuff. Haha! So we have determined Baby A takes after his daddy after all. He is always cool and calm. In his ultrasound pics he always looks like he is relaxing in a hammock. Baby B tends to favor his momma. He is always moving and up to mischief. I like to think he is entertaining the both of them. Although he needs to quit beating up his brother. A lady at work shared that when her twin sisters were born one actually had a black eye. Let's hope the Cochran boys don't enter the world like that.

The ultrasound tech said everything looked great and sent us on our way. We realized in scheduling our next appointment that Memorial Day weekend was next weekend. As I've shared we had purchased flights to come home some time ago but the doctor said we would need their approval. Luckily they were able to sneak us in with a doctor. Every time we go we meet a new doctor. They do this so in case of an emergency, early delivery, etc. we will be familiar and comfortable with the doctor on call. This doctor was very nice and after examining us she said she saw no reason why we couldn't fly to Kentucky.

So our busy but fun schedule continues. We will be flying in on Friday and visiting thru Monday; one of our short but sweet visits. This will be the last one for a long time. Next time we visit KY we will be bringing two little boys with us :)

Love,

The Cochran's

The Big Revealing

I can’t believe I haven’t written in this long.  It's been since April 22!  What can I say...life has been busy in a fun way!  Many of you have probably heard the story about finding out the gender.  However, I have to write about this so the boys can read it one day.  Oh, that’s right, surprise we are expecting BOYS!

On March 13 I shared my prediction with you that we were expecting boys.  Not once did I falter from that guess.  99.9% of everyone around me guessed girls.  For fun, at work I brought in my sewing kit (that I never use because I don’t know how to sew).  A girl did the "pencil test" on us where you take thread and needle and stick the needle in the eraser.  The gender is predicted based upon if the pencil goes in a straight line or in circles.  Straight line=boys/Circles=girls.  If it stops and starts again that is supposed to indicate another child.  That day the test went straight line, stop, straight line, stop, circle, and then stopped for good.  Boy, boy, girl.  I can now testify the boys are correct.  Only time will tell on the girl.  The same day I went online and looked at the Chinese calendar.  Again, the prediction was boys.  To add to my crazy tests (this one I didn’t even sign up for) my masseuse did this thing to my arm and said you are having boys.  I quickly asked “How can you tell?”  He responded, "Your body tells me."  He put pressure on my arm and it stayed strong.  He said that indicates boys.  Had my arm bent or went up and down then supposedly that’s girls.  He said he has been 100% right and whenever I go back I have to tell him his accuracy is still at a perfect 100%.

We went to the doctor on Tuesday, April 26. This was the ultimate test!  We were heading to Kentucky on Thursday, April 28 so we decided to keep the gender a surprise that day so we could find out with our family.  I decided I wanted everyone to open an envelope at the same time to reveal the gender.  I didn't want it to just say "Girls" or "Boys" so I wrote two little poems. 

The girl one read:
"They took a picture of me,
To determine what gender we would be
Looks like we love dresses and curls,
Because we are two very special girls!"

The boy one read:
"They took a picture of me,
To determine what gender we would be
Looks like we love ninjas and toys
Because we are two very special boys!"

I know you are very impressed with my poetry.  I made six envelopes for the girls and bound them with a rubber band and six for the boys.  I sealed each envelope so no peeking was possible, but just to be sure I gave her a large envelope to place the smaller envelopes in to seal tightly.  I know myself!  I had to take all the necessary precautions.  We explained all this to the ultrasound technician and she got started on the ultrasound.  Right away she told us to look away.  This made me more suspicious that they were boys.  So we kinda stared at each other with big grins on our faces.  Like Eve tempted Adam I may have had a moment of weakness and made an attempt on my husband.  However, my hubby is no Adam and we kept eyes locked on one another.  The ultrasound technician must be an avid poker player because you couldn't read her at all.  So for two days the answer remained hidden in the envelope. 

On Thursday we flew to Kentucky.  We arrived at 9:30am and the "Big Revealing" (that's what I call it) didn't occur till 6:30pm.  I was so calm that day that everyone thought I already knew.  I didn't get nervous till I knew that Pappaw Bret, Cochran's dad knew.  He lives in Indiana and came that day to visit us; however he had to get back early so we sent an envelope with him.  When he arrived back in Indiana him and Tammy aka Gamey opened the envelope.  I became very anxious after that.  The cool thing is that day my in laws bought us a Flip Videocamera.  (They are awesome and I recommend you going and buying one today.)  So we were able to capture all of this on video!  We handed out the envelopes, counted to 3 (although I noticed my dad had already began to open his), and said open!  Of course I skipped right down to Line 4 to read "We are two very special boys."  My eyes began to water, both of Cochran's arms went up into victory, and everyone started rejoicing.  Uncle B who was filming asked Cochran, "How do you feel?" and my hubby responded, "Like a champ!" 



My baby shower was on that Saturday at the KC Hall in Lebanon.  Aunt Kimbo had come to Mammaw's house on Friday to take three generation photos of us.  She did her best to find out the gender.  My dad who is a big jokester actually tried to tell her; however the more he tried to convince her he was telling the truth the more she thought he was lying so it had to be girls.  She arrived on Saturday asking when the girls were going to be revealed.  Surprise Aunt Kimbo!  All the other ladies were questioning when they would find out too.  I had fibbed and said toward the middle of the shower.  Since it was so close to Easter I came up with the idea of passing out Easter eggs.  In all the eggs but one we had question marks.  Of course, no one knew what was going on and they didn't anticipate this is how they would find out the gender.  After all the eggs were passed out my cousin Mary Beth raised her hand and stood up and read: 
"Congratulations!  You have won a prize!
So stand up and shout for joy,
Because now you can announce to everyone
Leslie and Chris are having two little baby boys."

Everyone cheered; however I was videotaping and I had the loudest reaction.  You would have thought that I just found out.  I guess I was still so tickled at the news. 

That weekend was absolutely perfect!  It will always be one of my favorite memories!  God's timing is perfect because despite the distance we've been able to celebrate the news of the pregnancy and the gender at times when we are physically together. What a blessing!  Kristi & Sims welcomed everyone into their home for the "Big Revealing." They have always welcomed me and my family and I honestly don't see us as two separate families but one united family!  I always say that when I married Cochran I became a wife, daughter, and sister.  Being an only child, Brittany and Tori mean the world to me!  I couldn't have asked for two more beautiful, smart, and funny sisters.  My mother did a wonderful job decorating and planning my shower.  MeMe is truly my best friend and I'm so thankful for all of her love and support!  She sacrifices so much for me.  She is always there for me and I don't know what I would do without her.  So many friends and family came to the shower.  It definitely chokes me up when I think about how much everyone means to me.  I'm so grateful to have you all in my life! 

Now, aside with my pregnancy hormones being all emotional I know what you are wondering:: Do Baby A and Baby B have names since we know they are little boys.  We do have a few names, but have decided not to make anything official.  What if we change our minds?  What if they are born and we say you don't look like a C---- Cochran?  I know my parents named me when I was born.  They had Jessica and other names in mind but when they looked at me they said "Leslie Ann" for the first time.  When we get closer this may change but for now they are still Baby A and Baby B.

Have a wonderful weekend,

The Cochrans

Florida Babies

My friend Emily and I were talking on Tuesday this week when she said "Just think about where you were a year ago.  Did you know you were moving to FL?  I mean if someone said that you both [Cochran & I] were going to get jobs, move to FL, have this amazing year, and be pregnant with twins what would you say?"  Immediately on the phone with her I pulled up the Calendar and realized this was the week I received the job offer in Clearwater (Friday, April 23, 2010).  Then things moved really fast! 

It's funny to me because neither Cochran or I remember how moving to FL was ever brought up.  It happened sometime in August 2009.  My hubby is the researcher in our family.  He began to look at places to live in Florida and he felt we would really like the Tampa Bay area.  Neither of us had ever visited here before.  Labor Day weekend we decided to check it out.  That's when we discovered Allegiant Air with the cheap, direct flight tickets.  It was an adventure because for the first time we didn't have anything planned for our trip.  We hadn't even booked a hotel yet.  The ironic thing is the only apartment we visited and toured is where we are living now.  He had already researched that as well.  We came down here for several days and said we could definitely see ourselves living here. 

When we arrived back home over the course of the next several weeks I guess you can say we second guessed ourselves. Cochran said that he felt like we were running away from something.  What I didn't know.  I more took it as "The grass isn't always greener on the other side."  In my head there was the "What if's."  "What if we hate living there...What if it's the wrong decision...."  There is definitely a fear of the unknown.  I accepted his decision for us.  However, I did pray to God that if He wanted us to move that I needed my husband to be 100% positive it was the right decision for us.  I knew if it was ever mentioned again and if we were ever to go through with it I didn't need there to be any doubt.  So I continued to pray that if it was God's will for us to move I needed Cochran to be our backbone. 

December 2010 came and I'm going about my day when I receive a text.  Ok, ladies and gentleman, this cracks me up because first of all it had now been over two months of no Florida talk.  Out of the blue, on a cold December day my hubby TEXTS me and says "I'm ready for us to move to Florida."  Really?  Well I didn't believe it.  I'm thinking to myself, "It's cold and he's daydreaming about the beach and playing with my emotions."  Haha!  I didn't believe him that whole week we talked about it until finally he convinced me he was serious.  I can say from that moment on my husband has never not for one moment waivered from that decision.  Thru all the uncertainty he was always certain that we should move and this was the right decision for us.

Of course in order for us to move so many things had to fall in place.  There were two big items on the list.  First we had to sell our house.  I refused to move without our home being sold.  I did not want that weight on our shoulders.  We lived on a cul de sac.  There were already around 5-6 homes for sell and they were $10-$20,000 less than our home since they didn't have a fully finished basement.  Most of these homes had been on the market for well over a year.  I decided to call the realtor who sold the neighbor's home that was about three houses down.  I didn't meet this neighbor because we were neighbors.  Haha!  I met her because I marketed to her and we realized we lived on the same street.  I was able to see her and get the contact info for her realtor.  Her & her husband had it on the market for over a year as a "for sale by owner" and this particular realtor had it sold within two months.  Our goal was to sell our home by April 30, 2010.  The new home buyer incentive was extended to this date so despite it being winter we felt that this would give us an edge.  We placed our home on the market the week of Christmas.  We had planned on not telling our families about any of this until well after the holidays, but I can't keep anything from my mom.  I totally ruined Christmas and was Scroogette by mentioning "Oh and our house is for sell because we want to move to Florida."  Bah Humbug!!!

All of January and February no one came.  It was cold and February that year brought a lot of snow.  At the end of February our realtor said there was man who wanted to view the property.  He came on a Tuesday and wanted to view the property again on Saturday.  Our realtor said she thought this was it; however his situation was unique.  He was going thru a divorce and they shared a child.  Due to the divorce agreement him and his wife had to find homes within so many miles of one another.  We knew he liked our home but prayed she would find one suiting for her.  On Monday we got our offer, but wait there was a curve ball.  There was a contingency that they sold their home.  Here's a housing market that is at it's slowest and we are in the mix of trying to sell 3 homes.  Of course, we accepted; however we were not completely locked in since we could still show the home in case none of this happened. 

Mid March my husband addresses our other big item on the list-Find Jobs.  Again, he is the researcher of the family.  Job searching feels like punishment to me.  He is the one who came across Bouchard Insurance as a possible employer for me.  They were voted 2009 Best Places to Work in the Tampa Bay Business Journal (how ironic yesterday I attended the 2011 luncheon and we won again this year!).  I didn't have very much confidence but applied online.  It wasn't long before the recruiter called me.  Our first initial conversation could have not been any better.  The timing was that of only God's timing.  I had applied for a job that I wasn't completely qualified for.  It was for group benefits.  She began to discuss what my ideal position would be.  I was completely honest with her and she disclosed that the gentleman who holds the position I was describing (Personal Lines Sales Executive-write personal lines insurance) was leaving soon and they hadn't even posted his position; however she felt that it would be a perfect fit for me.  I was so excited.  I soon discussed with Cochran that we needed to pick a few days to come down here so we could actually line up interviews. We decided April 12-April 15.  Now we were actually able to start setting up job interviews and being more serious in our hunt. 

I kept asking Cochran how we were going to go in the interviews completely confident when we had no idea how our house situation was going to play out.  I was afraid that we might burn bridges with great potential employers.  He remained very confident that it was all going to work out and that the house would sell.  He was right!!! We found out at the beginning of April that our buyer's home had a contract.  To top it off our closing was scheduled for April 30, 2011.  To me that was so surreal because that was our goal and it was happening. 

With one of our big items marked completed all of our focus went to getting jobs.  We didn't want any job but wanted solid employers and positions.  When we came to Florida we were all business and no play.  We spent all day in our hotel room preparing for our interviews.  Most of the employers respected we were only down here for a few days so after our initial interviews we got second interviews scheduled.  We made known that we were closing on our home April 30 and not to rush the decision but we needed to know if we were moving our personal belongings in storage or to Florida. 

I prayed for patience and someone then told me oh you shouldn't have done that, because God will teach you patience.  After a week and half of waiting on April 23rd I finally got the job offer.  One week before our closing!!! Cochran had completed 2 out of 3 of his interviews so we were confident once we moved and he scheduled the 3rd interview he would get the job and luckily he did!

Now that both of the 2 big items were completed we had a to do list of about 1,000 items...haha!  In a week's time we sold his Navigator, bought an Altima, hired a moving company, finished our jobs, etc. and were on the road to Florida on the afternoon of May 3.  We camped out in our apartment for five days on an air mattress.  The moving company arrived on our first wedding anniversary, May 8. 

I share this story because I want our babies to know how they came to be born in Florida and not Kentucky.  Although they will be little Wildcats!  I hope that in their lives they have faith that God will lead them and He will make the impossible possible.  Since trusting in the Lord and making this move our lives have been even more blessed.  I have an inner peace that I didn't have before.  I don't struggle with worry or stress like I use to.  God made all of this happen and I trust Him beyond measure.  I feel Cochran and I have always had a strong connection; however I feel we have grown even closer.  We no longer try to plan our lives out and can't say if we'll be here for the rest of our lives.  However, we know God will guide us and whatever that may be we can't stand in the way of His plans.  I know His plan is far better than any dream of mine.  I also know that having twins down here away from family and friends is going to be difficult.  However, I'm not going to allow fear to take away from my joy.  I know there will be moments of tears and wanting Meme but Cochran & I are a team and we will get through it together.  I have always found strength even through all of your kind words and support.  If we reach a bridge and decide it's best to return home then we will cross that bridge when we come to it.  Regardless, we have no regrets about moving to Florida.  We said from day 1 that we would have regret if we didn't go for it.  We didn't want to grow old and have that "What if."   We've been here a year now and it's flown by.  Almost in a blink of an eye.  It's been an amazing journey so far and my heart is full of gratefullness.

This just makes me want to ask you Emily's question, "Where were you a year ago?"  I can't imagine the story I'll have a year from now.

Have a blessed Easter!

The Cochrans

^{Matthew 7: 7-8  7} “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. ⁸ For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened."

Baby A & Baby B emails to Mammaw Borders

I'm not sure how this started but for months now Mammaw and the babies write to one another via email during the week.  I've included the past few emails.  The babies really enjoy hearing from their Mammaw and they love to write to her.  I plan on printing them all out and placing them in a book for the kiddos.  

From:  Mammaw Borders
Sent: Thursday, March 24, 2011
How are my babies this morning?  I am getting ready to go to the hospital and work for someone, but just wanted to be sure you THREE are okay.  It isn’t a very pretty day here and it has really turned cold.  For the next seven days our highs are in the 50s.  A real shocker after several days in the high 70s and low 80s.  We will try to have pretty weather for you and Mommy and Daddy next weekend.  Can’t wait!!!!!

From: Baby A & Baby B
Sent: Thursday, March 24, 2011
Mammaw, you keep saying next weekend but we won’t be there till another a month.  You must really be excited to see us because you keep moving up the date…hehe!  Next week we are going to Hawaii without you.  Sorry!  You and Pappaw went without mom once before so she said she doesn’t feel bad.  Don’t tell her we told you!  We are excited about our vacay!  Mom can’t wait to get a break from work.  We gotta get a new bathing suit because we have made momma’s belly grow and we told her the truth…she needs to cover up!  We got up way early today and went to have mom’s blood work done.  We were there at 7am.  Mom made daddy go because she was scared she would faint.  He was teasing her but it worked.  When he gets her fired up she doesn’t concentrate on anything but not hitting him…haha!  Don’t work to hard today Mammaw!  Are you going to smile and show off your missing teeth?  We can make you feel better…we don’t have any teeth!  Heck we are just getting our ovaries or testes this week.  Can’t tell you if we are boys or girls yet but one of the two is growing.  Haha!  We crack ourselves up!  It’s warm here.  Hoping we get some pool time this weekend!  But we have a huge list of things to do.  Mom really wishes you and Nana Nana could be here this weekend.  She has to get started on the registry and she could really use the support & help of you 2 right now.  P.S. We can stretch and do summersaults this week.  We just did one for you!  Love you!!!  We are sending sunshine your way. 

(Fast forward.  I left for Hawaii on 3/31.  The next correspondence begins while we were still in Hawaii.)
From:  Mammaw Borders
Date: April 8, 2011
Mammaw is so glad you are coming back home.  I bet you two are really tired.  Did you learn to hula?  Did you find Mammaw a good looking gentleman to bring to Kentucky?  What about all the animals , like dolphins, sharks and whales, you saw.  Do you think you can remember what they looked like when you get here so you can tell Mammaw all about them?  You two be sure to get plenty of rest when you get home and tell Mommy to do the same.  I can guarantee you that you will have jet lag and adjusting to time will take a couple of days, so find a really cozy place in there, get a really good pillow, hug each other really tight and sleep, sleep, sleep.  I love you FOUR a bushel and a peck and a hug around the neck.

From: Baby A & Baby B
Date: April 8, 2011
Mammaw, we will always remember the sharks, whales, and turtles. We didn't see dolphins here but we see them at home. Mom and Dad took us to Seaworld and said when we get old enough they will take us back. We are very cozy in mama's belly. But we are counting down the days to we make our grand entrance into the world. Our birthday won't be too far from Daddy's. Mom is so excited that we weren't born around the holidays. She also said last night since we are being born at the same time that if her & dad have another child then maybe none of us kids will have the "middle child sydrome." She seemed pretty happy about it whatever that is.  We also won't forget the dances, colors, fire, and beauty we saw in Hawaii. Mom found some potential men for you but shipping is really expensive. We have pics and her friend videotaped most of the performances to share with you. By the way, dad said we are going to be really exhausted so we hope that Sat and Sun we get plenty of rest. Mom said she doesn't want to go back to work. She is really dreading it. Dad picked up a power ball the other night and told mom it was for us...he said it's "for the twins." If we won he said he would fly over here to meet us and we could stay an extra 2 weeks.  We didn't get one number though! Guess we will have to keep trying! We are going to try and get some more sleep now. We are growing to be close friend's and roommates. We are trying to do our best at sharing. We love you Mammaw! Can't wait to visit you!!! Xoxo!
The Twins

From: Mammaw Borders
Date: April 11, 2011
Well you can wake up now and brag to each other about your suntans and what a good time you had in Hawaii.  I know you and Mommy had to get some rest this weekend and now you three have to go and make some money.  Are you filled up on pineapple?  I got lots of pictures about your trip, and Mommy is showing you two off now.  Was Daddy glad to see you?  I bet he really missed you and Mommy.  Mammaw is counting the days now when you will be in Kentucky.  I think you all are going to be gad-abouts just like your Mommy and Daddy so you had better get you some good traveling shoes.  I’m going to tell Nana Nana to get you all back packs for your shower.  Give Mommy and Daddy a great big hug from me and tell them I love you FOUR a bushel and a peck and a hug around the neck.

From: Baby A and Baby B
Date: April 13, 2011Mammaw, boy have we been tired since returning from Hawaii.  You should see the mess we’ve made at home.  I think Daddy and Scooter are very happy we’re home…even if we are a bit of trouble.   The pineapple was soooo good.  We are now craving ice cream…it’s the best thing in the world!  I know we’re at work, but we’re not very productive.  Mom keeps daydreaming and taking us to Lebanon.  We have butterflies flying around down here because she is so excited.  We can’t wait to see you!  Guess what!  Well first of all Nana Nana is now thinking that she wants to be Mimi or Meme.  Not sure how you spell that.  We would think MiMi but you know she is all about Me…so we like Meme…hehe!  She’s going to get us for that.  She’s really not all about her.  Every day she calls mom to tell her that she bought us something.  So down here we call her UsUs…haha!  We are newbies so we are working on our sense of humor.  It can get boring you know.  However, we are moving but mom can’t feel us yet.  But we are dancing down here and playing bumper babies.  Second thing to guess…We have a special delivery today!  You should know what this is since you helped buy it for us.  We get our chair and ottoman today.  Yay!  We can’t wait to rock and roll on that thing.  Dad is really busy today so mom isn’t going to take lunch in case we have to run home at anytime.  She can’t wait to see it.  Also, Aunt Kathy and Cousin Sara got us a present.  We love them too!  Oooooooh we are going to have so many goodies!  Interruption-we need to discuss with you our special report.  We had a Baby A and Baby B meeting this morning and need to inform you that you will have to visit us in Florida.  You are one of mom’s favorite people in the world and ours too.  So we definitely need to see you at least every 2-3 months.  Now, this is non-negotiable.  That was the terms we discussed.  Now that’s settled we hope you have a wonderful day.  We are going to get some water, potty, and snack on a banana.  Oh and work too…blech!  We love you a bushel and a peck and a hug around the neck! 

From: Mammaw Borders
Date: April 13, 2011
Well I’ve been waiting a long time to hear from you and your big trip.  I told you all to quit that butterfly dancing and get some good nestling sleep.  I want you to feel really good when you come to see me.  I can’t wait for Mommy to sit in the chair and I am so glad that I made Meme do it too cause that just did it for her.  You are very welcome and have purchased a few little surprises for your shower,  I can just see you two down there looking at the presents and giggling with each other about the funny old women there at the shower and some of your gifts.  I wonder which one of you is going to be the more mischievous.  I don’t think you need to work on your sense of humor—neither of you has any choice with the parents you have.  And besides, what two babies would go to Hawaii with their Mommy so early in life????  I’m sure your Daddy and your Mommy will have you on the run constantly—and that’s good.  Have you learned to roller blade yet?  I imagine you are still working on somersaults.  You are going to have to start jumping rope or something so Mommy knows you are down there.  I love ice cream also and I’ll be sure to have plenty when you get here.  Be sure to let me know how you like the chair—you will think you are in heaven.  Do you all have any  preference as to flavor?  Make Mommy and Daddy behave and tell them to hurry to Kentucky!!!!!!!!  I love you FOUR a bushel and a peck and a hug around the neck.

From: Baby A & Baby B
Date: April 14, 2011
Mammaw, we love our chair.  It’s so comfy, soft, and big!  Mommy just loves the color.  She’s so ready to put us and daddy to work soon on preparing the house for our arrival.  She is really getting antsy.  Daddy is really going to be in for it!  Our favorite ice cream is both mom’s and Meme’s favorite…mint chocolate chip!  Yum Yum!  Daddy took us to Cold Stone the other night.  I don’t know if you’ve ever been there but you definitely need to go soon.  We got the Strawberry Rendezvous.  Sounds fancy huh?  It was strawberry ice cream with fresh bananas, strawberries, white chocolate chips, and graham crust all in a waffle bowl.  WOWZERS!  It made us both do a Tazmanian Devil spin!  The women at mommy’s work can’t get over her belly.  It came outta nowhere and it’s here to stay and grow over the next 5 months!  Everyone at her work is very sweet and asks about us every day.  Today one lady brought her a blueberry bagel (our fav) and another lady just went on vacation but snuck mom all kinds of treats in her drawer before leaving.  She feels very loved and supported.  Also, now mom puts lotion on her belly every morning and night.  She said something about stretch marks. We’ve been doing a lot of stretching and growing down here.  Do you think we may need some too?   There’s no Wally World here.  We only have a restaurant, gas station, a dance club (plays a continuous beat we dance too), and of course our bedrooms. We love you Mammaw a bushel and a peck and bunches, bunches, bunches.  2 weeks and we will see you!  Yipppeeeee!  Xoxoxo!

Are Identical Twins Hereditary?

My Mammaw Borders was an identical twin.  Her and her sister were nicknamed Jerry & Jo.  According to Mammaw, "Our nicknames came from Geraldine and Geovana.  Mother always said
Dad wanted a boy, so the Jo and Jerry helped to satisfy him I suppose."  They were born at seven months and Aunt Jo arrived fifteen minutes before Mammaw.  My Grandmother delivered the girls by natural birth at home.  (I'm starting to feel even more grateful for my 2011 pregnancy).  Mammaw said back then they didn't have incubators so Grandma had to keep them wrapped up in blankets and warm at all times even though it was June. 

They quickly became the talk of the small town.  Grandma told Mammaw that people would ride by the house very slowly to get a glimpse of the girls playing in the front yard.  Grandma dressed the girls alike until they were 16 years old.  Pop wanted it that way, but it didn't bother the girls.  At 16 they went to the University of KY as freshman and at that time began wearing what they wanted.  When looking at family photos they were always dressed to the "Nines."  My Grandma actually made most of their clothes.  I wish I had that talent.


Mammaw shared her feelings on being an identical twin.  "There is no way anyone can understand the bond we shared.  Even though we had our own independence, we always knew we belonged to each other.  I never remember anything I disliked about being a twin.  I was [an identical twin] and there was never a question about what I was-just like you are born short and that is your individuality."  When reading this I teared up.  I hope that our babies share this same attitude, bond, and love.  How special! 

Growing up, Mammaw would always tell us grandchildren that one of us would have twins.  The old wives tell is that twins skip a generation.  The week before I went to the doctor on 2/25 I was talking to my cousin Brittany about the pregnancy and she playfully said, "You know it could be me or you that have twins."  Fast forward to my phone call to her a week later with the news.  Quickly she celebrated and was yelling, "Yes!  I'm so happy it's you and not me."  Now she has been added to my daily prayers to have twins. 

The hubby & I have both researched if identical twins are hereditary.  We discovered that research says fraternal twins can be hereditary but identical twins are not.  Scientists say that fraternal twins can be hereditary due to the fact that a woman may produce more eggs during her ovulation.  However, scientists haven't really identified and confirmed a clear cause for monozygotic twinning.  It seems to be a random event.  About 3 in 1000 pregnancies result in identical twins and all parents have a reasonably equal chance of conceiving them.  Just yesterday at work, a co-worker said on Good Morning America they had a special about twins.  They said it's a 1% chance to have identical twins.  She said she even rewound the tv because she didn't think she heard it right.  On the show they had a lady who had quadruplets.  Follow closely-she conceived two fraternal babies then both of those eggs split.  Therefore, she had (at once) two sets of identical twins.  In case you're wondering two girls and two boys.  In her case, she knew multiples were a possibility since she was on fertility drugs; however the eggs splitting is unpredictable and unknown.  Our doctor told us about instances like hers when we had our first visit. 

My last question to Mammaw was if her and Aunt Jo ever fought over boys.  She replied, "Never fought over boys.  I really didn't like any of her boyfriends and she always had one.  I kinda liked to play hard to get but sometimes that would backfire on me.  Well I ended up with the BEST one God ever made anyway."  As most of you know I am extremely close to my Mammaw and was close to my Pappaw too while he walked the earth.  I still talk to him and find comfort that he is always there to listen.  Like I've told them both before, I have and will always carry them with me.  They will always be in my heart.  I know that my Pappaw would have really gotten a kick out of me having twins.  I can see him grinning from ear to ear and saying "Well that's just something."  He would have been proud.  I wish I could have a picture of him in his chair holding both of the babies.  This definitely brings on tears.  However, I know my babies have the sweetest angel looking over them.  My Mammaw & Pappaw  have always been my rock and have always been role models to me.  Their unconditional love and support along with my parents were my saving grace.  To know Mammaw was an identical twin and that I'm carrying identical twins makes me feel even closer to her. Despite what the Scientists say Leslie Cochran says that this may not be just a coincidence. 

It does put in perspective that the relationship I share with my Mammaw will be what my children share with their Meme (my mom), Nana (Cochran's mother), and Gamey (Tammy).  I am so thankful they have three strong, beautiful, loving, funny, and supportive women to be their best friend and role model too.

I don't want anyone of you to get jealous but Mammaw and the babies are already pen pals.  They write to one another several times during the week.  I have saved some of their correspondence (you know proud mom's collect their children's keepsakes).  I will share a few of their conversations in the next blog.  I think it's pretty sweet but I'm partial. 

I LOVE YOU MAMMAW!!!!!!

XOXO,

Leslie Pooh

Monozygotic-Diamnionic Twins

Yesterday marked one month of finding out about the identical twins and it was our second doctor's visit.  I was thrilled because I thought we would have another ultrasound.  Like most expectant mom's I've been doing my reading, receiving daily updates on the babies' growth from "What to Expect," and wanted to view the development that has been occurring.  Not to mention, I was ready to add a photo to my frame to showcase.  However, that didn't happen but we did get to hear the heart beat.  I asked the doc what one of those contraptions would cost.  It was out of my budget!  Of course, at this stage you know you're pregnant and you see your body changing and are experiencing pregnancy symptoms but you can't feel the babies.  As a new mother to be I believe we all worry to a certain degree and love to have that reassurance.  Good news is our next appointment is scheduled for the last week in April.  Exactly 2 days before we are due to visit KY.  Doc confirmed we will find out the sex at the next office visit.  However, we are hoping that they can keep it a secret from us that day and place a few cards in envelopes with the sex written on a piece of paper.  We plan on having a cookout with our families on Thursday 4/28 and do the BIG REVEALING together.  It means so much to me to include them on this journey and share every moment I can.  Despite distance you can be creative and make memories that you will always cherish.   

Our doctor confirmed at our first appointment that we were having Monozygotic-Diamnionic aka "Mono-Di" twins. "Monozygotic" (Identical) twins occur when one egg is fertilized by one sperm.  At some point in the very early stages of cell division, the developing cell group splits in two and develops as two separate embryos.  This rare twinning creates two embryos who share the complete complement of each other's genetic information; their DNA is identical.  The point at which the split occurs will determine which of the four possible developmental scenarios will develop for the babies.  I'm just going to focus on our reality.  "Diamnionic" basically means two amniotic sacs.  Breaking it down we have Identical Twins with two amniotic sacs.   They share one chorion (outer sac) and one placenta.  Due to the two babies taking from one nutrition source it is considered riskier than two babies having their own.  Therefore, soon after our next doctor appointment we will continue going for our routine visits along with seeing a high risk pregnancy specialist at another location.  This doctor is specialized in monitoring the growth of the babies.  In researching, you learn that the placenta is suited to supply twins with everything they need throughout their gestation.  Under the best of circumstance it generously provides for the transfer of oxygen, water, and nutrition from mother to developing fetuses.  However, there are situations in which the placenta appears to provide a preferential supply of nutrition to one fetus over the other.  The specialist will closely be watching the growth of both babies and we were told if one gets to 20% or more larger than the other then that's a red flag.  Everyday I remind them to share, share, share! 

Another risk the specialist will be on the lookout for is known as Twin to Twin Transfusion Syndrome (TTTS).  Basically TTTS can occur due to sharing a single placenta.  The blood supplies of identical twin fetuses can become connected, so that they share blood circulation.  Although each fetus uses its own portion of the placenta, the connecting blood vessels within the placenta allow blood to pass from one twin to the other.  This can lead to being shared unequally by the twins, and one twin may have a share too small to provide the necessary nutrients to grow normally or even survive.  TTTS affects approximately 15% of identical pregnancies.   Unfortunately, TTTS can't be prevented but treatment has come a long way.  As my husband tells me, "Don't cross that bridge till you come to it."  Hopefully with your continued prayers this will not be something we face. 

There are a few frequently asked questions I want to answer:

Q. Can you have boy/girl identical twins?
A.  First of all don't feel bad for asking this question because once you hear the answer it all comes back to you.  I also totally forgot till the doc explained it at our first visit.  I'm even pretty sure I got an A on my test back in the day on this...haha!  Quick recap of Biology 101: The egg always carries an X (girl) chromosome and the sperm either carries an X (girl) or Y (boy) chromosome.  Therefore, the man's sperm determines the sex of the baby.  Again, with identical twins it's one egg fertilized by one sperm.  Then the egg splits.  Therefore you're either having 2 boys or 2 girls. No combo.  (Side Note: I believe God was genius on this.  It's all up to the man and I'm so happy for that!  Women don't need that additional pressure!)

Q. Were you on fertility drugs?
A. Negative partner.  Fertility drugs can result in Dizygotic (Fraternal) twins or even triplets, quadruplets, etc.  Fertility drugs can increase the number of eggs a woman produces and then multiple sperms can fertilize those eggs.  With identical twins they can't really explain why the egg splits. My answer...A gift from God.

Q. Do twins run in your family?
A. Stay tuned to my next blog :)

In closing, one day at a time is the best you can do.  Not just being pregnant but in life in general.  It doesn't hurt that my doctors gave me the OK to go on my trip next week to drum roll....HAWAII!  I will be going with Aunt Tiffany and Aunt Kimbo.  Yes, the hubby will be at home.  He's awesome!  So kids, don't say momma never took you anywhere :) 


Aloha friends,

The Cochrans


Cute Story
A lady at work has 8 year old identical twins.  A couple of weeks ago she told me she had a book about multiples.  The following day she came in with the book and the cutest story.  She said it was up on a high shelf so she climbed up there and brought it down and the boys noticed it and exclaimed, "Look a book about us!"  She replied, "No boys this is for Ms. Leslie.  She is having identical twins."  A look of confusion and astonishment spread across their faces and they said, "You mean we aren't the only twins in the world."  She said  she got so tickled because she never realized that is what they believed.  They were shocked to hear there are others out there like them.  Haha!